The secret ingredient.

The secret ingredient. by: jesus moises Delcid moisesdelcid@gmail.com
"Love is like fire and if it is communicated, it turns off. Anonymous.
Love is a subject of endless discussion and thinking on your definition, of course some more successful than others, but it is important to clarify the sense to avoid confusion with another passion.
Love is the fundamental sentiment and the origin of all other affective states in humans. Because of love we tend to reach for something or someone and either in correspondence or reject the person realizes or feels denigrated
Love is defined as the act of giving. You give yourself to someone and shared others. It is the surrender of the person to be loved or to others in an effort to transcend the lives of those lives, if it means something important in those whom we love.
Yet we have a full love for this feeling is something complete and not a fleeting passion only by obtaining an opaque sensuous pleasure. Love is a very powerful feeling that must be exercised in their understanding and not as a mere pretext to guide man to act impulsively causing more harm than good to himself and to others. True love builds and builds and seeks an understanding of the loved one. The false concept of love as just damaged, destroyed and corrupted by that this is only a fleeting passion of avarice.
Love is more than just a desire or an attempt to escape from reality. Love is a commitment to surrender the same to be properly to life, in order to improve and enhance it and help others.
"Only since I love my life is beautiful, but only since I know that love alive."
Theodor Körner.


True love leads us to perceive life as benign, and in that direction when the human being manifests itself in an enormous vitality and joy constant, due to the power to love and be loved. And his love for building materials in both aspects (people and objects) and intangible issues (truth, understanding, intelligence, spirituality).
Love is a constant element in the universe, that love is in the union and order of beings and things maintaining harmony in a natural way, and existing in harmony in the coexistence of people and of things, when man captures the beauty in natural form in reality. And through his mind that people seek to match the harmony to capture the beauty in the form of artistic works, given through his talent and intellect.

But personal relationships can distinguish love, under the aspect of being loved, of the following ways:
Love sensitive (concupiscence). It is if someone or something is loved for it's good for those who love him. "I love you for that you need."
The love of benevolence: if something or someone is loved by that is good and kind. "I need you I love you".
Love of friendship, if given the affinity or harmony between two people through a healthy coexistence. "Who has a friend is a treasure."

It is therefore important to exercise fully the love, understanding "how willing we are to share with others? But above all, to seek self-improvement through service to our fellow men, in seeking to obtain and defend well.
Love is more noble than being a mere object of desire, goes beyond the fleeting sensations that just fading with age, love is a guide to become better people and find goodness and beauty in others. True love does not degrade over the years if not strengthened and who gives life to manifest.
When love is truly appreciated as Augustine says: "Love and do what you want."
Concluding that love is the secret ingredient of reality and that which distinguishes and exercise in your life, find the true meaning of human life.